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Adolescence 6–24 months

Your teenage dog was fine being left alone, and now they are not

Alone time is a skill that goes soft without practice, and it is rebuilt in departures short enough that your dog never starts to worry.

Your dog slept through your working day at 5 months old. At 11 months old you come home to a chewed door frame. Or a message from a neighbour about barking, or food you left that was never touched.

What changed

Usually nothing dramatic. Adolescent dogs are awake more, they need more to do, and any skill goes soft without practice. If your routine shifted at some point this year, your dog has had less practice at being alone than they used to.

There is a harder possibility worth naming plainly. Distress at being left alone is a welfare problem rather than a phase, and it does not usually improve on its own.

Tell the two apart tonight

Point a phone at the door and leave for 10 minutes. What happens in the first 5 minutes tells you which problem you have.

  1. Bored: a slow start, a wander, some chewing of something interesting, then sleep. The chewing is aimed at objects, not at exits.

  2. Distressed: it starts within 2 minutes and does not settle. Pacing, panting, drooling, barking or howling on and on, scratching at the door or the window, and food left untouched.

  3. If the video looks like the second one, stop here and book a veterinary appointment before you train anything.

If your dog is bored, tonight, 15 minutes

  1. Feed one meal from a stuffed and frozen toy, given only as you leave the room. The toy appears with your absence and goes away when you come back.

  2. Give your dog 20 minutes of sniffing on a walk before any stretch alone. A dog who has used their nose settles more easily than a dog who has only used their legs.

  3. Leave the house for 3 minutes, come back in without a greeting, and sit down. Do that 4 times this evening, at 3, 5, 3 and 8 minutes.

If your dog is worried, this is the shape of the work

Gradual departure practice, kept below the point where your dog starts to worry, is the core of separation-related behaviour work. Staying under that threshold is the condition for learning. It is slow on purpose, and it is where a qualified behaviour professional earns their fee.

The rule underneath it is that your dog is not left alone for longer than they can currently manage, at any point during the work. That usually means arranging cover, which is inconvenient and is still the fastest route.

Safety note

Book a veterinary examination first if your dog cannot be left alone. Distress at being left is a recognised behavioural condition. Sudden behaviour change warrants a veterinary check, and pain often presents as a change in behaviour. Then ask your veterinarian to refer you to a qualified behaviour professional.

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Three things not to do

  1. Do not get a second dog to solve it. A dog worried about your absence is usually not comforted by a different dog.

  2. Do not leave your dog alone for longer to prove they can cope. That rehearses the panic and makes the next departure harder.

  3. Do not reach for a bark collar. Punishing distress adds fear to it, and aversive methods are associated with worse welfare outcomes and no training advantage.

How long this takes

Boredom often shifts inside 2 weeks once dinner comes out of a bowl and into a toy tied to your leaving. Genuine distress is measured in months, with help, and nobody can give you the end date.

Tonight's version, in one line: film 10 minutes, then decide which of the two problems you actually have.

Where this comes from

  • Gradual, sub-threshold departure practice is the core of separation-related behaviour work.

    Sargisson, R. J. (2014). Canine separation anxiety: strategies for treatment and management. Veterinary Medicine: Research and Reports, 5, 143–151.

    Veterinary Medicine: Research and Reports

  • Working below the threshold at which the dog reacts is the condition for learning in the presence of a trigger.

    Fear Free Pets / Landsberg, G., Hunthausen, W., & Ackerman, L. (2013). Behavior Problems of the Dog and Cat, 3rd ed. Saunders.

    Saunders (textbook)

  • Relaxation is trained as a behaviour in its own right, in short repeatable sets below the dog's threshold.

    Overall, K. L. (2013). Manual of Clinical Behavioral Medicine for Dogs and Cats. Elsevier.

    Elsevier (textbook)

  • Behaviour change is built with management plus reinforcement, and sudden behaviour change warrants a veterinary examination.

    American Animal Hospital Association (2015). AAHA Canine and Feline Behavior Management Guidelines.

    aaha.org

  • Pain frequently presents as a change in behaviour rather than as obvious lameness.

    American Animal Hospital Association (2022). AAHA Pain Management Guidelines for Dogs and Cats.

    aaha.org

  • Review finding aversive training associated with worse welfare outcomes and no training advantage.

    Ziv, G. (2017). The effects of using aversive training methods in dogs — a review. Journal of Veterinary Behavior, 19, 50–60.

    Journal of Veterinary Behavior

  • Reward-based methods are recommended for training and behaviour change; aversive methods carry welfare and behavioural risk.

    American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (2021). Position Statement on Humane Dog Training.

    avsab.org

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